The Sugary-Coated Truth

I sometimes wonder if I am too blunt with people. I was raised in a family that spoke what they were thinking, a lot of the time to their detriment. As I have matured I have been able to reign in that impulse to a pretty great degree, but there are times when I wonder if I said something a little too soon or a little too harshly. Because compassion is not at the top of my list of spiritual gifts, I have a tendency to only go so far with people before I cut to the chase.

Mark 6:12-29
“They went out and preached that people should repent. 13 They drove out many demons and anointed many sick people with oil and healed them. 14 King Herod heard about this, for Jesus' name had become well known. Some were saying,"John the Baptist has been raised from the dead, and that is why miraculous powers are at work in him." 15 Others said, "He is Elijah." And still others claimed, "He is a prophet, like one of the prophets of long ago." 16 But when Herod heard this, he said, "John, the man I beheaded, has been raised from the dead!" 17 For Herod himself had given orders to have John arrested, and he had him bound and put in prison. He did this because of Herodias, his brother Philip's wife, whom he had married. 18 For John had been saying to Herod, "It is not lawful for you to have your brother's wife." 19 So Herodias nursed a grudge against John and wanted to kill him. But she was not able to, 20 because Herod feared John and protected him, knowing him to be a righteous and holy man. When Herod heard John, he was greatly puzzled; yet he liked to listen to him. 21 Finally the opportune time came. On his birthday Herod gave a banquet for his high officials and military commanders and the leading men of Galilee. 22 When the daughter of Herodias came in and danced, she pleased Herod and his dinner guests. The king said to the girl, "Ask me for anything you want, and I'll give it to you." 23 And he promised her with an oath, "Whatever you ask I will give you, up to half my kingdom." 24 She went out and said to her mother, "What shall I ask for?" "The head of John the Baptist," she answered. 25 At once the girl hurried in to the king with the request: "I want you to give me right now the head of John the Baptist on a platter." 26 The king was greatly distressed, but because of his oaths and his dinner guests, he did not want to refuse her. 27 So he immediately sent an executioner with orders to bring John's head. The man went, beheaded John in the prison, 28 and brought back his head on a platter. He presented it to the girl, and she gave it to her mother. 29 On hearing of this, John's disciples came and took his body and laid it in a tomb.” 

John the Baptist had a bluntness issue as well. As the last of the “old school” prophets, John was not one to beat around the bush. Everything he said was right to the point. Perhaps this is why Herod kept him around so long, as it says “he was greatly puzzled; yet he liked to listen to him.” But John’s role was to speak the truth, and it got him killed. People don’t like to hear the truth in undiluted form. People like to hear the truth padded with niceties and flattering words so it is easier to swallow. John the Baptist is one of the most interesting people in the Bible. His prophetic career as it is recorded was short, perhaps even shorter than Jesus’. But his fiery words and unforgettable persona reach out and grab you by both ears and pull you in close. He spoke the truth, it would be nice if we could too, but it might get us killed.